As do the opportunities to have sex – with some allowing for more time than
others.
Why do we
think of lengthy sex as great sex?
Have you asked him why he feels this is
‘normal’ and ‘good’ sex? It may be that he, like many of us, are used to
aspirational messages in Western media, porn, self help books and magazine sex
advice features all telling us that ‘great’ sex should be something we do as
frequently as possible for as long as possible in as many different positions as
possible.
